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Jun 2, 2011

Never Trust a Man Who Says Trust Me

"Never trust a man who says trust me." I received these words of advice at my high school graduation party about thirteen years ago. As a rule, I have always been very trusting except when it came to salesmen and guys hitting on me or my friends. Once I was in a relationship with someone though, I trusted them completely. I trusted my friends just as much. I know I can trust my family.
Somewhere along the line though, I got burned one too many times. Too many guys lied to me. Too many people let me down. I stopped trusting. I trust a handful of people that are my family or I consider family. The rest I listen to, then take their words and actions, and analyze them to death. I'm always on the lookout for someone trying to use me or take advantage of me. As you can imagine, this is not a pleasant way to exist.

Now I've reached a point where I want to be able to trust people again. I want to trust my boyfriend. I want to trust new friends. I just don't know how. How do I let go and not be so afraid of getting burned again? That's what it all boils down to, I don't trust people because I don't want to let people hurt me anymore. I realize though that I'll never really have a strong relationship without trust. I need help with this one. How do I let down my guard and learn to trust again?

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Suka tak dengan N3 saya, kalau suka dan rasa terhibur boleh la tinggalkan komen anda.. Terima kasih

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